There are a thousand other people offering up different advice. Why listen to me? Who went and determined that I was qualified enough to be giving anybody advice on this sort of thing?
I made that determination. In all honesty, anything I might have to offer can mostly be found on the internet already. You can comb through the internet spending countless hours reading countless hours of material written by dozens of different people if you like. Much of what you will learn from me might be covered to some extent within some of that. It’s not as though I am about to completely revolutionize the process with some never-before technique for communicating with women that I can teach you, like telepathy.
Naturally Talented
While studying this topic over my lifetime, I have noticed a trend prevalent across much of it. A good portion of the advice you will come across cannot be replicated to the same or even similar results. Not even close. Much of it is written by exceptionally good-looking men. These men are often naturally talented socially. And they are often excellent salespeople, helping themselves both landing women, and attracting buyers for the information they are peddling.
Many years ago now, I could already see the need for somebody like myself to come along, and help synthesize some of the advice already out there. Break it down in ways that could be applicable to normal people. Not just advice for the exceptional. That I might be the person attempting to do just that had never even occurred to me until very recently. I had always just been too preoccupied with all life has to offer in work, entertainment, love, etc. The idea that I might sit down and try writing out guides for anything seemed far-fetched in the not-so-distant past.
A Dating Coach
Over a relatively short span of time, I unofficially became a dating coach for a few different friends. Why listen to me? They were simply at a loss for answers. They were at rock bottom as far as their self-worth was concerned, and just reaching out into the darkness for any kind of solution that might present itself. Mostly, they were just venting their frustration.
Apparently, the number of women I’ve dated, as well as the caliber of women I’ve managed to convince to go out with me had not gone unnoticed. I’m sure this helped keep their minds a little bit more open to my help than would have been the case. I hesitated at first with each of them, before giving them my assessment of where and why they were struggling, and what they might do about it. Just as it is learning anything, you need more than the practical skillset itself. You also need the underlying theory behind it.
I Should Write a Book
I might have hesitated for a moment longer at the idea of giving away all my secrets to 2 would-be competitors in the same dating pool I was swimming in. But, it’s important to keep a mindset of abundance, not scarcity, so I went forward with things. I explained the current realities of the dating market in 2023, online in particular. I told them about the challenges that women faced on the other side of their screens, hoping to give them some insight into why they hadn’t been noticed, and what they might be able to do to change that. To wrap things up here are some bits of more practical advice. Why listen to me? Because I had been consistently experiencing the success they had so desired.
Both were thoroughly impressed with my voluminous knowledge on the direct subject, and also in areas indirect to the issues at hand. Both, before even having a chance to put to use any of my suggestions renewed their confidence, and they no longer felt burnt out when it came to finding a match. Each of them was adamant that I should write a book, and help others as I helped them. After actually applying the tips given to them, they went from suggesting I write a book, to so strongly insisting that I do so that one of my friends told me that he would kick my ass if I didn’t.
That Is How This Blog Was Born
In the end, I didn’t opt to write a book. It just seemed so daunting to begin writing one as somebody who is not a published author. But, that is how this blog was born. In this format, I am able to just punch out much shorter posts, as I see fit to do so. The kind of information I have to put out there is not entirely evergreen and future-proof. But it’s knowledge that isn’t going to be outdated anytime in the near future either. Many of the underlying fundamentals and principles discussed will still be good generations from now. Perhaps someday I may have to go back and edit some posts to modernize them, but otherwise, it’s not the kind of stuff you need to be reading the day I release it to benefit from it the way it is with news.
At the end of the day, I feel like I have some value to provide to somebody. In particular, to people who are not naturally great at meeting new sexual and romantic partners. By starting out in this format, it will allow me to help some people much sooner than if I were to try writing and publishing a book. Attempting to start writing a book doesn’t ensure a book even ever gets published.
Why Listen To Me?
So, I hope that you are one of the people that I can provide value to. Why listen to me? Because I used to struggle as well, and managed to overcome it.
